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ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY

YOU OWE ME ATTITUDE. Entitlement Mentality is what is dealing with most people in their friendship and relationships.

Entitlement Mentality is define as a sense of deserving or being owed a favor when little or nothing has been done to deserve that special treatment. This kind of entitlement is a narcissistic personality trait, what I mean here is people who need a lot of attention from others also don't value others feelings, ideas or needs (are mostly selfish and boastful).

As I advance in life , I have learned not to expect alot from people because they owe me nothing. The more I feel entitled to people the more I will feel hurt and unhappy. Why then should I tied my happiness to people. Why will you tell people how to treat you, why do you feel superior to others, we are all human beings.

I heard a lady in a video saying she is going to delete all her contact simply because they didn't celebrate her on her birthday, wow. I believe she will be sad through out the day , instead of her to celebrate and be happy because God have added another year to her years but rather she chose to be unhappy. Entitlement Mentality is really bad , having this kind of thinking can affect your personal and professional relationship.

How Entitlement Mentality Affect Relationship and Mental Health

People with this kind of Mentality always see themselves as special and superior to others. And this affect them when they are not being treated the way the expected. This can result in

📌 Conflict in relationships

📌 Unhappiness

📌 Disappointment

📌 Depression

With this every aspect of your life suffer including your career. I have observed that this kind of people are very confident, can be interview well and land their dream jobs . But often lack team spirit and avoid problem solving in workplace. Most of the decisions an entitle person makes are self-serving.

Mercy🖋️