Baskadia

My story is a little bit long but please hear me out......

My bf and stays 2 blocks away from each other’s, so we spend time at each other’s house. We’re both doing our national service and continuing our education at the same time. We’re weekend students. The problem is, just this Friday we studied a lot to the extent that I was even dozing off at the exams hall on Saturday. After the exams I told my bf he shouldn’t tell me to do anything when we get home and he agreed. When we got home I ate and slept at his place. When I woke up in the evening, he wasn’t beside me so I called and he said he was at my place so I should come there and I went. As at that time, my head was seriously aching me and I nearly felt sick but I had a lot of chore to do and I’m also on diet so I don’t have to eat late. So I told him to prepare some spaghetti for us to eat and he agreed. NB he was learning when I came but quite when I switched on the TV and went to his place. He came back around 7pm and I was angry but I didn’t say a word. He prepared the food but I didn’t eat. We went back to his place that evening, he was learning and i was watching TikTok. He then told me to lower the volume and I didn’t mind him. I was feeling sleepy so decided to play some music and played but he came to switch off the music and I switched it on then he took the off away the phone. I went back for my phone and he said “ I can’t tolerate your stupidity” I said this is Bertha and he said there wasn’t spit in his mouth when he said that. I thanked him and he welcomed me. I want to know if it’s alright to take this to heart. I’m really heartbroken cos he didn’t not even hold on to anything before insulting me.?