Baskadia

The lessons we take from obstacles we encounter can be fundamental to later success. Recount a time when you faced a challenge, setback, or failure. How did it affect you, and what did you learn from the experience?

Every one of us has faced and/or is facing obstacles in life. Different circumstances such as personal dilemma, family problem, health issues either physical, mental or emotional, financial hardship, school projects or other kinds of stuff in school, self-growth and more. Despite the differences of all of those, only the effects are relevant. Challenges, setbacks, or failures give us hard times to contemplate and grow.

I have encountered a lot but I guess dealing with what will say of others towards me makes me paranoid. At first, I am very much affected. No matter what the good things I've done. Still, they have their talks about it, or they make me a laughingstock. I think I am a failure. I am not enough. That they're trying to say to me that I don't have any value. All of those took me to blame myself. My anxiety attacks because dealing with it and other kinds of stuff as well as meeting all the dues made me bombarded and felt that I have a heavy thing to burden. But my family and relatives and my supportive friend help me to lessen this burden. 

As days goes by, I realized that having self-love and taking care of yourself is the biggest factor to be considered. As long as your doing your best and you didn't harm or affect other people, go for it. Fight for it. Challenges are made to face and this would help you make stronger. Furthermore, time management is also helpful to manage stress. Thus, I considered this journey as a nightmare yet a successful one because I am ready to face a new one with a smile on my face and to embrace it with the learnings.