I AM SORRY IS THE GREATEST EXPRESSION OF LOVE
We all make mistakes in our relationships. Sometimes we hurt the ones we love, either intentionally or unintentionally. Sometimes we say or do things that we regret later. Sometimes we fail to meet the expectations of our partners, or we neglect their needs and feelings.
When we mess up, we often feel guilty, ashamed, or defensive. We may try to justify our actions, or blame the other person, or avoid the issue altogether. But none of these strategies will help us heal the rift and restore the trust and intimacy that we have lost.
The best way to deal with our mistakes is to apologize sincerely and genuinely. Saying “I am sorry” is not a sign of weakness or defeat. It is a sign of love and respect. It shows that we care about the other person’s feelings, that we value the relationship, and that we are willing to take responsibility for our actions.
But saying “I am sorry” is not enough. We also need to show that we mean it, and
