Give respect
I have seen it very common in our society that we scold our children for mischief in front of the children of our relatives. I have often seen that if an older relative comes to our house, how do we pick up our child from the chair to seat him? We don't raise our child with love at all. We should say, son, please get up. Your aunt, uncle, aunt or any relative will sit here. And we would start giving priority to the children of our relatives. They are on their children. I have often seen that if a guest or a relative comes, we start scolding our children in front of them and their children. We will not respect children. Even children will not respect you. Instead of scolding us, we can explain with love. We need to change our thinking. We must respect children. Even in front of them and at home. We start scolding them thinking they are the opposite child. This is a very wrong thing of Allah. We have to seriously consider our attitudes which are bad for us and then we too. They are embracing that children are disobedient to us. And then children also prefer their friends over their parents. In fact, we have taught them this somewhere in childhood. We should change our mindset. Learn to respect children. And don't give priority to others over your children at all.