You Can Win

M Abbas2022/06/07 04:50

“winners see the gain; losers see the pain.” ... “Winners dont do different things, they do things differently” ... “Under Adverse conditions - some people break down, some break records” ... “If you think you can - you can!” ... “Winner dont do different but they do differently”

You Can Win


♦ The Winner is always part of the answer;

The Loser is always part of the problem.

♦ The Winner always has a program;

The Loser always has an excuse.

♦ The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";

The Loser says, "That is not my job."

♦ The Winner sees an answer for every problem;

The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

♦ The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";

The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."

♦ When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";

When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."

♦ A Winner makes commitments;

A Loser makes promises.

♦ Winners have dreams;

Losers have schemes.

♦ Winners say, "I must do something";

Losers say, "Something must be done."

♦ Winners are a part of the team;

Losers are apart from the team.

♦ Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.

♦ Winners see possibilities;

Losers see problems.

♦ Winners believe in win-win;

Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

♦ Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.

♦ Winners are like a thermostat;

Losers are like thermometers.

♦ Winners choose what they say;

Losers say what they choose.

♦ Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

♦ Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

♦ Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you";

Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."

♦ Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.

♦ Winners plan and prepare to win.

The key word is preparation.


Let me close this chapter with the eight action steps discussed earlier:

1. Be a good finder.

2. Make a habit of doing it now.

3. Develop an attitude of gratitude.

4. Get into a continuous education program.

5. Build positive self-esteem.

6. Stay away from negative influences.

7. Learn to like the things that need to be done.

8. Start your day with a positive.


1. Write these action steps down on a 3-by-5 index card and read them every day for the next 21 days.

For the next 30 minutes, answer the following questions.

2. How can you use each step

ÿ at home?

ÿ at work?

ÿ socially?

3. Make a list of the things you would like to change about yourself.

4. Then list the benefits to you (and others) of each change.

5. Finally establish a timetable and commit yourself to make the changes.

May God bless you all with success.

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