competition these days is intense. That girl from your hometown all of a sudden has access to dozens if not hundreds of potential partners at her fingertips. And as we all know, the modern woman has a lot of options. The woman that you’re interested in, likely has a handful of suitors knocking on her door.
Personally, I love the idea of love at first sight, finding your soulmate and knowing that very second, that you’re meant to spend your lives together.
It’s a beautiful idea — really wonderful. And while I hope we all get a chance to live that magical love story, the reality is that leaving it to chance is silly.
Why would you leave magic to chance, when you have an opportunity to create magic? Love is romantic in nature. And romance, believe it or not, takes work. It takes effort.
It takes doing and saying the right things, being the right man — being the man that she needs.
In recent years, there has been an explosion of different methods and tips on making a woman fall for you. I’m sure many of you have heard of The Game (basically a book that teaches you how to con women into sleeping with you), and similar products.
I’d be lying to you if I said that many of those sorts of tactics don’t work — because they do.
At the end of the day, playing psychological games or tricks, does work. It gets the job done. And to be quite honest, it’s not always a bad way of going about things. Playing psychological games, saying and doing things in order to get the response you want from her, is not a bad thing. It’s not wrong to create a reality for her that isn’t the ‘true reality of things’ — whatever that means.
This is what people seem to fail to realize. The reality that we have in our heads isn’t real. Or rather, it isn’t whole; it’s simply a little part of a bigger whole — our personal versions of the way the world appears and works.
The way we believe our world to be, is the way our world seems to us. In a sense, we’re all living in our own personal delusion. Things that don’t objectively matter, mean the world to us.
For these reasons, those that create the greatest realities for themselves, and for those they love, are those that are happiest. Those are the people that make the best partners, best lovers, best friends.
So while you may call using psychological tactics to make a woman fall for you sleezy or dishonest, nothing could be further from the truth.