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 A  Successful Marriage: The Building Up of A Healthy Family

The interest, A Successful Marriage: The Building up of a Healthy Family recognizes the factor that constitutes the building block of a successful marriage. In its recognition, a successful marriage is achieved mainly through the active participation of the man (husband) and wife. Without this condition, there is no successful marriage.

It asserts that a successful marriage can be viewed as life-long union which requires the bedrock that has the identity known as true love. It identifies the cause behind short-lived marriages, irrespective of race, status, and background as unreal marital foundation laid. 

A Successful Marriage clearly points the active involvement of a knowing-husband and knowing-wife to appreciate the bedrock, true love, as the only foundation of a successful marriage. Acknowledging marital success can be measured by its longevity; it sees true love, the foundation of a successful marriage, as being translated in the light of marital longevity.

Longevity in marriage or marital longevity is an appreciation of longevity in trust and communication existing between the actively participating man and his wife. In other words, longevity in marriage is dependent on two factors:  trust and communication and best appreciated by prepared married individuals. In this format,

Longevity in marriage=Longevity in (Trust + Communication)

=Longevity in Trust + Longevity in Communication

Where Trust is simply the Total Reliance Upon Someone else’s Truths (on the part of the husband, vice versa) and communication is a (mutual) voiced complement of trust. Simply put, the more appreciated the factors of trust and communication, the more expressed marital longevity will be.

The Total Reliance upon Someone else’s Truths, the acrostic of TRUST, will be looked into in seven respects. They are:

1)      Fidelity

2)      Financial dependability

3)      Home affairs

4)      Educational proficiency

5)      Spirituality

6)      Call to raising children

7)      Counseling/Wisdom

The seven listed respects are truths both parties must rely upon and appreciate them through regular communication. Communication ‘voices’ the efficacies of the respects of truth in terms of:

1)      Managing one’s sexuality

2)      Rendering financial support, not being too financially dependent

3)      Home management; making the home worth staying or creating a homely atmosphere

4)      Not necessary but worth considering academic accomplishment, but of great importance quality education  (self-education): handling stress-related problems, establishing inter-personal  relationships, goal orientation (ambitions in life)

5)      Level of prayer consciousness, spiritual dedication, and  demonstration of spiritual truths

6)      Level of preparedness of raising children and responsibilities associated with them; financial, moral, spiritual, social and other  ‘meet-ups’ , child planning

7)      The importance of right counsel and wisdom in addressing pertinent issues concerning marriage; submission embrace, the home, children, health, finances, and  dealings with dependents

Therefore,   the work piece, titled A Successful Marriage: The Building Up of A Healthy Family is two-chapter interest, which are trust and communication- housing their subordinates as mentioned above. In the case of trust, there will be explanations to assert reasons many married persons are not experiencing and will not experience successful marriages and why successful marriages can be attained by only a few.