Baskadia

Girls are always told that they are lucky to get two families, one before marriage another after that. But one thing they forgot to tell that after marriage they want us to forget our family with whom we spent our all happiness and sorrow before marriage. It's like we are not human beings but some mobile from which just delete all old files and shooooo we will forget all our memories completely. Are our emotions are different from boys? Did our parent take less care of us? If boys want to stay with their parents after marriage then they will consider as good son. But what is the definition of good daughters. Is there any existence of the word 'Good Daughter' or only 'Good Daughter-in-law' after marriage. If we girls want to stay with our parents then we would become bad wife/bad daughter-in-law, who doesn't know how to manage her home. I can't go to my maternal house in festival because 'festival par to bahu apne ghar rahegi' ,irrespective of here nothing will happen in that festival. Is it consider to be lucky to have two families like this? Shouldn't we get choice where we want to stay? Shouldn't we take care of parents also? I just hope that time will change and not only girls but boys should also get two families and take care of their parent-in- laws as their own parents.